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me loves this shoes :)

i chatted with a friend today in Italy.

He was dead home sick.. I feel for him.

Not just that, he is in love, always been and always will be with one person.

I may look like i dont fit in here in this country (Philippines) until now, but i know how filipinos love.

He misses him (yes, he’s gay). He miss his home. He miss his homeland and his friends.

For the past 2 years, ive been compiling stories, posts and essays/quotes from friends and/or other people; this one is something that is not yet in my book.

Filipinos loves to love.

you might think that everybody does but ive known pretty much a lot of fellas who doesnt measure to what filipinos feel when they are in deep.

I dated an American (of course), British and Korean in the past. I have Chinese, Russians, Canadians, French and German friends (blogging is a big contribution to this). But Filipinos are on top of my list when it comes to wooing a girl.

Us western-minded people doesn’t really believe in courting, do we? But they do.

We usually ask somebody out and be considered dating them when dinner went well right? But not here; they go out on dates, men will give their women things, may even meet the friends and parents, will be SMSing and calling each other for months before they will be considered dating.

We usually say ‘i love you’ when we really do, right? sometimes 6 months of dating is a bit early for that.. But here, they are very affectionate. Almost immediately after the girl says ‘yes’ to the guy and they are boyfriend-girlfriend officially, they tell each other those words. So basically, they dont just show it (like we do), they also say it.

Filipinos think that the person they are with at the moment will be the person they are going to marry, which is a lot different from us. We do it baby steps, we start from ‘i like you’, then ‘i care about you’, then ‘i love you’ and ‘yes, let’s get married!’.

They go, ‘I like you and I care about you and I love you so much so let’s get married!’

Bottom line:

Filipinos are die-hard romantics and they are very fragile.

I had an opportunity to be loved by one and I might say, its very different from what i was used to but I AM WELL TAKEN CARE OF.

So kudos to you if you’re a Filipino. The world needs more of your loving :) <3

Bakit nga ba tayo nagagalit sa mga taong nangloloko?

tayo ba ay tapat sa mga sarili natin?

Bakit ang lakas ng loob nating napagsisigawan na hindi tama ang ginagawa nila eh tayo rin naman, sa ganung paraan ay nagiging mapanghusga diba?

Iyang mga pulitiko, bakit ang dumi ng tingin natin sa kanila?

Inisip ba natin kahit minsan na siguro naman, kahit papano, hindi lahat ay corrupt! Meron naman siguro dyan, hindi man silang lahat, pero meron parin kahit konti lang  na gumagawa ng trabaho nila ng tapat at hindi nagnanakaw sa taong bayan. kailangan ba na ang pagkakamali ng iba noon ay makaapekto sa mga taong sumunod sa pwesto nila?

Hindi ba tayo nanghuhusga?

Ang mga nasa bilangguan.

Sigurado ba tayong lahat sila ay kriminal?

Bakit kapag may nakakasalamuho tayong kalalabas lang ng bilibid, natatakot tayo at nagiisip agad ng masama? Diba may mga taong gumagawa ng hindi dapat dahil wala na silang iba pang paraan na maisip para sa mga taong mahahalaga sa kanila? Hindi lahat ng taong gumawa ng krimen ay kriminal. Hindi lahat ng nakulong dahil sa pagnanakaw ay magnanakaw ulit. Sa pagkakaalam ko, ang mga ex-con ay takot makulong ulit hindi ba? Hindi naman siguro lahat ng nakalaya ay nanaisin ulit bumalik sa bilangguan..

Ang mga muslim.

Dahil ba sa may angking tapang sila ay dapat ba ikonsidera silang terorista?

Sa totoo lang, hindi ako makapaniwala na dapat pala itong isama dito pero nakakabahala ang sistemang ito. Marami tayong mga kababayang muslim sa Quiapo Manila, isang community sila doon. Pero marami ding ibang tao dun; may mga empleyado, estudyante, mga barker, fx at jeepney drivers, mga nagtitinda at kung anu-ano pa. Pero marami sa kanila ay pareho sa isang bagay, ang tingin nila sa ating mga kababayang muslim.

Bakit ganun sila? Bakit ang baba nila makatingin sa ibang tao? Magkakapantay lang naman tayo pagdating sa batas at karapatan. Dahil ba muslim ang pangunahing relihiyon sa mga bansang may gera sa kasalukuyan ay kasalanan na ito ng lahat ng muslim? Sisihin din ba natin ang mga KABABAYAN nating muslim sa pagsabog at pagbagsak ng twin towers sa America noong Sept 11, 2001? Masyado naman natin ata nilalahat.. bakit hindi natin isipin na may mga anak sila, asawa at mga magulang na katulad natin ay, gusto lang mabuhay ng matiwasay? Pano kung ang ilang mga taon mula ngayon nagka apo ka at lumipat ito ng paniniwala kay Allah? ..

Sa mga nasaktan dahil sa pag ibig.

Bakit ba tayo galit sa kanila?

Dahil ba naloko tayo o dahil iniwan tayo at nasaktan ng ganito?

Iniisip ba natin yung saya na nadama natin sa piling nila bago tayo nasaktan? Nag aksaya ba tayong intindihin kung bakit nila nagawa iyon sa atin? Sigurado ba tayong hindi tayo nag kulang? Kampante ka ba na hindi mo sya nasaktan, noon pa man o kahit bago kayo maghiwalay?

Imposibleng walang dahilan bakit nangyari to. May pinagmulan ang lahat ng sugat,may dahilan ang lahat ng bagay at may rason kung bat ganyan siya.

alam natin kung sino tayo, alam natin kung ano tayo at alam natin kung tama tayo o hindi.

binigyan tayo ng utak para gamitin sa lahat ng oras.

Para sa magiging nobya ng nobyo ko ngayon:

Dear sayo,

Masayahin sya hindi ba? pero wag ka… may mga oras na gusto nya mapagisa, sana kapag tumahimik na sya wag mo na muna sya kulitin, gusto lang nya mag muni muni ng konti. then pag tapos na, go! lambingin mo na sya dahil yun ang kelangan nya.. also, wag kang magtatampo kung hindi sya nagpapakita na naaapektuhan sya kapag pinag seselos mo kasi hindi naman talaga yun totoo, sa loob nya, naku! nag ttransform na yan, nag iincredible hulk na yan sa galit… ganyan lang talaga sya, ayaw lang nya ipakita yung weakness nya, which is IKAW.kaya wag ka masyadong mag inarte dyan okay?

trust issues.

hindi sya agad magtitiwala. pero once na nag sabi na yan ng kahit ano about sa family nya, makinig ka dahil yun lang ang hinihiling nya wag ka daldal ng daldal. wag mo din sana kwestyunin yung mga principles nya, syempre magkaiba kayo dba? kelangan nya ng suporta hindi pag puna mo..

Yung mga habits nya…. marami yun… at kadalasan may mga meaning ang bawat isa.

katulad ng pagtulog nya ng nakadapa, hindi sa ayaw ka nya yakapin kundi gusto nya ikaw ang yumakap sa kanya. ang hindi nya masyadong pagkain kapag magkasama kayo? gawain nya talaga yun kasi gusto nya na sya mauuna  matapos para mapagmasdan ka nyang lumalafang at nabubusog. mahilig din sya mag tubig lang kapag kumakain, healthy living kasi talaga sya sa totoo lang at hanggat maaari gusto nya ikaw din kaya ayusin mo buhay mo pde ba? Pihikan din sya sa mga isusuot mo. Kaya utang na loob, irespeto mo naman ang boypren mo sa tuwing kasama mo sya, wag ka gumanap na si Julia Roberts sa pelikulang Pretty Woman; iwasan mong magmukhang harot at manamit ng kita na ang kaluluwa mo… Trust me, mapapaaway ang boyfren mo at the end of the day.

kung pagluluto naman ang pag uusapan…

malaking parte yan ng buhay nya kaya kung wala kang alam sa larangan na yan, quiet ka na lang. appreciate everything he does kasi sa totoo lang, kung hindi sya interesado syo hindi ka naman nya pag aaksayan ng oras eh… kayang kaya ka nya ipagpalit sa ibang babae kung gugustuhin nya, pero wala eh… Ikaw ang napili.

Lastly, hindi yan iiyak pero masasaktan yan. at once na malaman kong nasaktan sya sayo, im telling you… i will try my best to mend him. at matakot ka na pag nangyari yun coz he was in love with me before you and hindi nya basta basta makakalimutan yun.. baka sipagin ako at ipaalala ko sa kanya yun cge ka!

lubos na GUMAGALANG,

- the ex

i have to admit, it was hard the first time..

the first day we met was crazy. I was perfectly aware that you already belong to my friend. She was in love with you, completely fallen but I didn’t care. I was mean, stupid and selfish.

eventually, I got you; I didn’t mean it but I did, I got you.

she was there, i never cared. We kissed, we hug and we cuddle in front of her all through out the night. but she wont let you go, she was in a way obsessed.

it was intoxicating, addictive.

seems like i borrowed something and i never gave it back.

i liked the chase. i like the challenge. i like you and i don’t like her.

she loved you for the longest time and i just took everything away from her and though guilt is killing me inside out, it somehow keeps me satisfied because he was all worth it. worth everything i lost.

crazy love affair.

you gave me a taste of a drug so addicting i cant live a day without it through my veins.

but she is always the victorious one.

i will have to live everyday for the rest of our lives knowing that you were a mistake that turned out to be right, and she will  never let me forget about it. she doesn’t even have to try.

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i never imagined this pain

and i’ve never thought that this is what you felt all along

i can now see how selfish i am

because i know i’ve been hurting you and i still cant let you go

how can you tell her you love her

when you promised me your forever?

and just like that you were able to say “i love you”

when it took me ages to say i love you too..

why did you really leave

when i gave you your freedom back?

didn’t you see

how each word pierced me in the heart?

i lost it somewhere along the way

that i know,

i used to appreciate you

and picture you in my tomorrow

we used to be in love

i was your world and i took that for granted

but how can you tell me you’re happy now

and didn’t think i’d be miserable about it?

i keep missing you whenever im doing the things we used to do

how can i go on living like this now?

a big part of me will always be lost without you

i hope you would hold me again now..

femme-in-wonderland:

Yess do it ;)

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